Alan Carl Durham
Alan Carl Durham, 87, of Charlotte, a man whose life was defined by quiet strength, deep faith, and unwavering love for his family, died April 13, 2026. Alan was born on October 22, 1938, in Durand, Michigan to Charles and Margaret (Reick) Durham. Alan graduated from Battle Creek Central High School in 1956.
In 1959, Alan married the love of his life, Mary Jane, whose father became a valued mentor to him in the skilled trades. He began his career at Allied Products in Hillsdale, Michigan, and later continued his work in skilled trades with General Motors
Above all, Alan was a devoted husband and an extraordinary father. Together with his wife, he opened his heart and home in a remarkable way – serving as foster parents to 25 children, while also raising their two beloved children. To each child who entered his life, Alan offered stability, guidance, patience, and unconditional love. His family will miss hearing his familiar and heartfelt closing words, “Thanks for callin’,” a simple phrase that meant so much and now holds even greater meaning.
Alan’s faith was the cornerstone of his life. He loved the Lord deeply and encouraged those around him to seek comfort and strength in prayer. His quiet example spoke volumes – he lived his beliefs daily, never seeking recognition, never complaining, and always choosing grace. He had a passion for history and learning. He could often be found watching the History Channel, absorbing stories of the past with genuine curiosity and enthusiasm. This love extended to his travels, as he enjoyed visiting presidential homes, historical landmarks, and meaningful places that connected him to the nation’s heritage. Alan also cherished time spent traveling, especially his trips to Florida, where he found rest, joy, and special memories with loved ones.
Alan is survived by his children, Robert (Billie Jo) Durham and Cathy Reed; foster children, Ryan and Tanisha (Dre) Jefferson; brother, Robert Durham; grandchildren, Cody Durham, Chad (Nicolette) Durham, Korin Steen, Kayla Dysard, Martina and Corey Biddinger, Mary (fiancé, Ben Sawade) Reed; and great-grandchildren, Cameron, Paiden, Madisyn, Dalton, Leah, Bailey, Parker, Conner, Kylar, Tucker, Morgan, Tanner, Sheppard. He was predeceased by his wife, Mary Jane; brothers Charles and Sam Durham; and sisters, Alice Richards and Helen Robins.
Friends are encouraged to support Alan’s family by attending services or sharing memories on his Tribute Page at www.prayfuneral.com. Visitation was Thursday, April 16 from 6 to 8 p.m. at First Baptist Church of Charlotte. Funeral services were Friday, April 17 at 2 p.m. at First Baptist Church of Charlotte with Pastor Pete Kroll officiating. If desired, the family suggests memorial contributions to First Baptist Church and Helping Hands. The family is in the care of Pray Funeral Home, Charlotte.