Linda Sue Kay
Linda Sue Kay, a loving wife, mother and grandmother, known for her generosity and thoughtfulness, died peacefully at home on Sunday, March 17, 2024. Linda, 75, of Grand Rapids, was born December 2, 1948, in Ypsilanti, MI, the daughter of Paul Birtie and Lora Louella (Lawson) Baird. She graduated with a bachelor’s degree from Michigan State University and went to work in education. Linda married the love of her life, Thomas Patrick Kay on February 4, 1978. Soon after their marriage, Linda and Tom took ownership of Kay’s Natural Living Health Foods on MLK in Lansing. They happily operated the store together for just over 20 years. Linda was also known to greet each customer warmly and was always a listening ear. Linda will be remembered for her kindness and empathy for others, qualities she put to use in the classroom as a substitute teacher for the Lansing School District. After they closed the store, Linda continued her teaching with various school districts in the Tri-County area.
Her family will always cherish Linda’s preparation and care in creating the most meaningful and beautiful family gatherings at the home. Her attention to detail was especially evident in her Christmas Tree, which was always trimmed to perfection. She loved to cook for her family and spent many hours in the garden and canning food. She also loved constantly working on the family home, preparing for renovations or work around the grounds. Perhaps her greatest personal joy was camping up North in the Upper Peninsula with her family. Linda found peace around the bonfire and in nature. She was especially thankful for the Michigan State Parks and the comfort extended to visitors by the employees.
Linda kept in touch with her sister and extended family. She enjoyed trips “down home” to Essex, MO, for family reunions. She loved watching movies, time spent with her grandchildren, and generally interacting with others. She would give everything she had even if it meant she would go without so that someone else would not be without. Above all, Linda will be remembered as someone who cared deeply for others, someone who truly knew that it was better to give than receive, someone who was always ready and willing to be there for others, someone who put family first, and someone who never gave up. Even when she faced health troubles early in her cancer stages, she continued to teach, right up to her retirement.
Linda is survived by her husband of 46 years, Thomas Kay; their son, Jonathon (Robin Meester) Kay; two grandchildren, Lillian and Jackson Kay; siblings, Paulette Croghan and Robert Baird; and several nieces, nephews and extended family. She was predeceased by her son, Brandon Kay in 2003; her brother-in-law, John Croghan; and her parents.
Friends are encouraged to support Linda’s family by attending services or sharing memories on her Tribute Page at www.prayfuneral.com. Visitation was from 6:00 – 8:00 p.m. on Friday, March 22, 2024, at Pray Funeral Home, Charlotte. Funeral Services were at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, March 23, 2024, at Pray Funeral Home with interment to follow in Woodlawn Cemetery in Vermontville. The funeral will be webcast so you may watch it from any computer, smartphone, or mobile device that has internet access. Go to www.prayfuneral.com, click on Linda’s tribute, then click on Photos and Videos from your computer (or Media from your smart phone). In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions to Meals on Wheels. The family is in the care of Pray Funeral Home, Charlotte.